How to Ease Tension and Make Isolation with the Family an Enjoyable One by Guest Writer Emma Grace Brown

By Emma Grace Brown, Guest Writer

Possibly one of the few good things that came out of the pandemic has been the opportunity to spend more time at home and with the family. But as anyone who’s been stuck in quarantine for months with their loved ones can attest, it’s something that can quickly get old. Indeed, along with the cabin fever of being holed up at home for months on end amidst the fear and uncertainty of the pandemic, it has not been rare for tempers to flare up and relationships to fray. Bored and restless kids start to create havoc, while stressed-out parents become irritable and impatient.

Of course, this is only natural. And while the self-isolation tension itself can further add to the stress of the entire situation, it can also be alleviated with a few lifestyle tweaks. Indeed, how your household spends its time in lockdown really does matter, especially to ensure that everyone maintains mental wellness. Let’s explore the best ways you and your family can use all these extra time so that peace and harmony reign in your home.

Stay Engaged and Productive

Again, bored kids are almost always up to no good, which will test your patience when you’re stuck in isolation. It is for this reason that you must take measures to keep them engaged throughout the day so that they’re never idle enough to make trouble. It’s a good idea, therefore, to have an arsenal of activities that are fun and interesting to keep kids entertained for hours on end. Bonus points if they’re educational, as well, so they can be productive at home, too.

Among the best ways to do exactly that is by making art with kids. It’s fun, simple, and satisfying, plus art materials are affordable and easy enough to acquire. This is especially beneficial for kids with learning disabilities as art can be a wonderful means of self-expression, while, at the same time, encouraging self-confidence where it’s most needed. 

Use Screen Time Wisely

Now, it’s oft-said that screen time is best limited for kids, especially younger ones, as it can harm their development. While this remains true in isolation, this isn’t to say that they should completely do without. In fact, technology has been a real godsend during the lockdown, and it can certainly help keep restless little minds and bodies at bay. The key is to set real limits and actually enforce them. The quality of what they’re watching, listening to, or playing is even more important, so you also need to control and sanction content.

It’s no doubt screen time will increase as school starts, with children spending more time on laptops and Chromebooks. While this obviously helps keep them occupied when you’re working, too many people on one network can slow things down for everyone, sometimes significantly. Thus, leading to more household tension. If you’ll all be using the internet at the same time, make sure you have enough bandwidth so lag time isn’t an issue. In some cases, it might be worthwhile to switch to a network that’s designed for gaming. These networks provide significantly faster speeds, making it easy to avoid losing your connection during a virtual meeting. 

Organize and Declutter Together

It’s easy for paperwork, books, sports gear, knick-knacks and the like to pile up for busy families. When this happens, tensions can quickly flare, especially if everyone is constantly at home together. To avoid this, decide as a family how to effectively organize and declutter your entire home. So it’s not totally overwhelming, have a plan of attack every weekend, with everyone having a set area or plan for cleaning and organizing. Once you’ve got everything organized and cleaned up, you’ll likely enjoy fewer arguments, save time and your home will feel more like the safe haven it’s supposed to be. 

Ease Back Into the Outdoors

Finally, as lockdown restrictions are removed in many areas, it may be high time to take your family outside again. Among nature’s many gifts are opportunities for relaxation, which could be exactly what the entire family needs after months spent stuck indoors. 

The beauty of this is your family can spend more time outside in so many different ways, as there’s certainly no dearth of things to do. So whether you want to go camping or spend a day at the beach, or maybe take a jaunt to a nearby park or even just your backyard, you will already be offering your family the gift of stress relief and a refreshing cure for cabin fever.

Suffice it to say, time in self-isolation is not at all easy, but there is really no need to add the additional stress and worry of family tension to it. By making use of the right activities and tools like gadgets, as well as nature’s inherent benefits, you can make this extra time at home less tense and more pleasurable, as it should be.
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Dollar Store Crafts: Place Mat Pillows

Dollar Store Crafts: Place Mat Pillows

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I have wanted some pretty seasonal pillows, but I don’t always love the price. I was at Dollar Tree when I spotted these pretty placemats.

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They were thin, as far as placemats go, but they were really pretty. Since they were at the Dollar Tree, I went ahead and bought four of them, with the intent of making two pillows from them.

I then took them home and pinned them together where I wanted to sew them. I then turned them inside out and sewed the edges together.

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And after I sewed the edges, I simply turned them right-side out and stuffed them with quilt batting.

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I then sewed the open end together.

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I absolutely love how these turned out! I am now looking for some napkins or tea towels that coordinate with these placemats so I can make some pillows from them!

What Dollar Store Upcycle have you completed lately?

Guest post: How to Find the Best Deals at Antique Stores

Joe Humphries is a contributing writer and media specialist for Three Centuries Store. He regularly writes for antique and home improvement blogs. He frequents antique stores and flea markets on the weekends on the hunt for vinyl records and compasses. Visit Three Centuries Store at https://threecenturiesshop.com/

 

There are different types of antique stores. Some shops feature more secondhand items than actual antiques and sell most items on consignment. Some shops are more upscale and sell high-end items. The dealers aren’t always on-site. Usually, booths are rented out to dealers. If you’re interested in items at a particular booth, find out when the dealer is available. Even though people recommend going to flea markets, estate sales, and auctions early, when it comes to antique shops, do your browsing after lunch. Dealers are usually at estate sales or auctions in the morning and bring back new items to the store at the conclusion of the sale. 

Here are some points to keep in mind about buying antiques. You can buy antiques at:

Flea Markets

A lot of flea markets specialize in selling imported or new items, so it can be challenging to locate authentic antiques at these sales. One way to find out where the real treasures are being sold is to check online for craft shows or what some refer to as trade days. Some shows are held monthly, especially during the summer months when a lot of people are traveling. Many of these shows sell:

  • Antiques
  • Crafts
  • Jewelry
  • Furniture
  • Clothing
  • Home decor


If you’re traveling, check the monthly calendar of events online to find out where shows are being held. Get there early to buy the amazing items that dealers and collectors want. When you shop flea markets, do a quick walk-through, especially if you’re looking for furniture. Always look for the signage on furniture to make sure you’re paying for an authentic piece.

Garage sales 

The best way to find some real gems at garage sales is to check the newspaper or online for garage sales in your community in upscale neighborhoods. You can often find great deals at neighborhood sales held by multiple families. Another way to find good deals is to check out moving sales. A lot of people don’t want to pack all their belongings, especially if it’s a long-distance move. You could get excellent buys on household items including furniture and appliances at moving sales. 

Estate sales

When an estate sale is run by the family, they don’t know as much about pricing items as professional liquidators do so you may get some excellent deals. The way to get the best prices is to wait until the second or third day of the sale when prices are usually lowered. Upcoming estate sales often notify you of sales that are coming up. You can find out about items that interest you before they’re made public. Previews of the sales are often offered to regular customers. 

Rules of etiquette apply when you’re haggling with a seller for a lower price. You don’t know if you can get a better price if you don’t speak to the seller, but always be polite. If you point out why the item should be sold for less than the asking price, don’t be unreasonable. If a seller doesn’t want to negotiate, let it go and talk to someone who’s more receptive. If you see an item that you know will increase in value but has gone unnoticed, pay the price for it.

Auctions 

Antique dealers frequent auctions more often than casual shoppers, but you may be able to find goods that are worth buying to resell, especially if it’s an estate auction. One of the best reasons to shop for antiques at auctions is that approximately 70 to 80 percent of all the people who attend auctions are dealers looking for items to buy at wholesale prices for resale. Some auction houses have a reserve price; the minimum amount they’ll accept, and some have appraisers on-site.

Online Shops 

Online shops and auctions often sell high-quality antiques and collectibles, but you may have to pay higher prices than you would at a brick and mortar store or auction house. You also can get bogged down by shipping cost, especially if the item is, particularly, heavy.

 

Finding the best deals does not have to be a hassle. With persistence and motivation you can find exactly what you are looking for for a price you like. The amount of stores out there you are surely going to find the piece you are looking for.